How to Get Your Ex Love Back with No Contact

There's rules to be follow like a game to getting your ex boyfriend back. Why? Like a game, follow some rules in order to win your boyfriend back. Communication is one key to the game and you don't cross over into too much communication. To get your ex back, you are going to need to be available. Yet, you also play the part you have moved on with your life. The trick is to play that part just right.


Try to take about a month of 'no contact rule' with your ex boyfriend. It is advisable. Keep in mind that while you’re thinking about him and wondering what he’s doing, it’s likely he’s thinking about you and wondering how you’re doing. If you’re constantly in his face, he’ll already know…or at least think he does.

This technique works because what it forces him to do is realize he has to live with the decision of cutting you out of his life. He might just come to see what a mistake that was. She’ll see what she has to deal with when it comes to not having you a part of her life anymore and he’ll realize he wants you in his life again. That means he’s likely to call you back and suggest to you about reconciliation.

No contact is ideal, but not everyone has such an opportunity during a break up. However, just because you have to be in your ex’s life, doesn’t mean you have to be a dominant part of it. You can still step aside and let him live the single life he wants for a bit.

Don’t let your boyfriend take advantage of you. He might try to convince you that you should stick around as “just friends”. That’s just going to make it harder for you to deal with the fact you’re still doing things for him and he’s not doing anything for you. You’re the only one losing in this sort of relationship.

Don't remain too much in his life, he’s not going to learn anything. He’ll think that he can take advantage of you. In fact, you’re actually giving him a reward for hurting you. If she wants things from you… let him know that commitment comes first.

Getting A Lover Back - Tips For Doing It Right

Getting a lover back can be a tricky proposition. Come on too strong and you'll scare them off for good, or they'll consider you a backup plan and take their time having fun and trying to see what other options they may have, all the while you'll be writhing in pain as they date one person after another. Or, come across as indifferent and they'll be convinced the two of you are over and they'll find someone else. Either way, you're screwed. The good news is that there is a happy medium, a way to let your ex know that you still care and may be interested in a reconciliation without giving the impression that you'll be sitting around waiting for them to make up their mind.

If you don't want to seem pathetic, it's important that you cut out all contact with your ex. Don't call, text, email, or just show up at their home or work. Just leave them alone. This is imperative if you don't want them to think of you as a sure thing, waiting on the sidelines. And don't worry about them forgetting about you, if you follow this advice, they'll more than likely hear a lot about what you're doing from mutual friends.

The next thing for you to do is give up any dumb ideas of making them jealous. Sure, it may work, they may get jealous but that doesn't mean that that jealously will make them want you back and even if it did they'd only be getting back together with you for the wrong reasons and the relationship probably wouldn't work anyway.

What you should be doing is living your life to the fullest no matter how hard that may seem right now. Go out with your friends, have fun. Do all the things you like to do but didn't have the chance to do when you and your ex were together. Take this time to make yourself a better person, whatever that means to you.

Maybe you've been meaning to take a trip, what are you waiting for? Go, explore. This will help you in many ways: for one thing it will keep your thoughts occupied with other things besides pain. Another benefit is that if you send a lot of postcards home to friends, your ex will hear about all the fun, interesting things you are doing. That will intrigue them. And lastly, you will expand yourself as a person. All new experiences help us to grow. Every time we try something new and different, especially those things that scare us a little bit, make us better more well rounded and interesting people. And that will help you in all aspects of your life, not just in getting your ex back.

Concentrating on living your life and trying to be happy is the best way of getting a lover back. It may sound odd, but everyone is attracted to interesting, fun loving people. No one is attracted to someone who seems needy and desperate. Which one would you rather be?