Make Him Long To Call You

There seems to be an apathy between men and phones that puzzle many of us. How can you make your guy long to call you? This is something that is likely to bother you a lot, especially considering that we usually enjoy getting in touch with the men in our lives.

Many men seem to be on the complete opposite of the situation. They do not appear to enjoy using the phone at all. However, do not pull yourself apart in case you find yourself with such a guy. There are some simple measures that will help you to spark his interest and he will long to call you.

Stop calling for a few days

You need to check your own actions to help you determine the real cause behind his failure of calling. Perhaps he does not see any reason why he should do so since you are already doing it anyway. When your guy is content in the knowledge that you will contact him, he will just sit back and wait for your call. Hence it is important for you to determine whether you are the one making your guy not long to call you. If you have been calling him often, do this test.

Stop calling for a few days. When you stop calling your guy, he will long to call you instead in order to find out what's happening.

Stop your accusations

Unless you are interested in driving that guy away, you should not get used to pointing an accusing finger at him whenever he calls. If you appear too demanding and dramatic, your guy will simply avoid you. As much as you would like to lash out at him for neglecting you, don't do it when he finally calls. Otherwise he will let you make the calls, which he may direct to his voicemail.

When he stops calling

There are instances when the guy often called regularly only to seem to lose interest. When you get the opportunity to spend time together, study how he reacts. In case he is interested, his lack of calling may be his way of gauging your reactions. Interestingly, your apparent lack of notice of the situation will just make him long to call you.

If you would like to make your guy long to call you, show your independence and give him his own space too.

He Doesn't Call - Should You Call Him Instead?

Many women are clueless as to why their dates do not call them even though he promised to do so. The first instinct that women tend to think of - is to pick up the phone and call them instead. Things worsen when they do not answer the call. Any calls will make them jump up, thinking he finally called back. Days gradually turn to weeks without receiving any call from him.

So the question is - should you call him? No! When you call him repeatedly, you are likely to do more harm than good. Repeated calls will not encourage him to chase after you.


Don't chase him around


First of all, men love pursuing but are scared of being pursued. You will simply look desperate and needy which will turn him off.

The most you should do is to call him or send him a text message - just once. Then wait for him to respond.

So what should you do if you still don't hear from him? You will certainly have a strong urge to pick up the phone and call him, but try to refrain yourself from doing so.


Step back


Firstly, you should take a step back. Think of the possible reasons why he doesn't call. Could he have lost your number? Or maybe he might have sent his phone for servicing?

Ask yourself whether it is really worth pursuing him? Is him really interested in you in the first place? If he is truly interested in you, he won't risk letting you be won by another man, and he will call you - rest assured.

Why Doesn't He Call Me?

I can't concentrate on the book on my lap,
I close my eyes to sleep, but I can't even nap,
I look around the room like I'm caught in a trap---
I can't concentrate on a thing
Waiting for the telephone to ring.

Why doesn't he call me?
Why do I sit in my chair like this?
How I'd rejoice right now
To hear his voice right now,
It's like some heavenly tone.
But there's not a sound---
Why doesn't he phone?

Why doesn't he call me?
Why do I torture myself like this?
He means so much to me,
His very touch to me
Is an incredible thrill!
But there is the phone,
Why is it so still?

Cigarette stubs in the ashtray,
And I've just poured another damned drink---
Cigarette stubs in the ashtray---
I can't think,
I can't think,
I can't think!

Why doesn't he call me?
Why can't I blot out his face from my mind?
I say the hell with him,
But in a spell with him,
I know he means all--
And there is the phone,
Why doesn't he call?