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Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Signs That A Guy's Interest in You

There are signs and indicators that you can determine whether if a guy shows interest in you or not. Among these signs, 3 stand out. When you know how to discern it, you will know how things stand, then you can act accordingly.

One of the important indicators is the way he will throw glances towards you. If you find that a guy seems to look at you every now and then, it is hardly coincidental. This clearly shows that he has romantic interest in you. You will thus be able to react as per your own feelings and intents. So, if you are also drawn towards the guy, this is a good opportunity to make yourself available for a date. Of course, you should not rush into this process before you are really certain that he is attracted to you. Here is a good indicator that will help you to come to a better conclusion.

This has to do with the guy's body language. This will help you to read some messages that he passes across even without realizing it.

In addition to the frequent glances already mentioned, here are other things that will also show a guy's romantic interest. He will try to attract your attention in every conceivable way, including some that may appear rather childish. He may blush when your eyes lock, or when you get closer. He will also try to close the gap between you as he enjoys your company. These additional indicators will reveal that the guy is strongly attracted towards you.

No one really enjoys being lonely, and if you know that a guy likes you, you will have quite a good feeling. In order to avoid making wrong conclusions, you should also take note of the manner in which he talks with you.

It is important to read the signs well in order to differentiate between genuine concern and mere flirting. Once you have determined this fact, you should focus on yourself in turn.

Are you also interested in the guy? If you are not truly interested in him, it will hardly make any difference whether he likes you or not.

In case you also like the guy, you should naturally give him room to make his advances. On the other hand, if you are not interested, then it is wicked to encourage him. In such a case, you should find a good way of stopping his efforts without dampening his spirits either.

In a nutshell, here are the things that will help you to determine whether a guy is interested in you. Check the way he throws furtive glances at you. Does he try to attract your attention? How does he talk with you? What do other aspects of his body language tell you?

You should have a discerning eyes and ears in order to detect the signs. React according if you're interested to be invited for a date.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

How to Make Him Commit - Get Your Two-Timer for Yourself

How many men have you come across who probably dated you at one time and then suddenly vanished just to be found dating other women? The possible answer is 'many'. It is a hurtful process for any woman to realize that she was taken for a ride and then left for another better or worse ride. Is there a way to make him commit to you?

Women, as emotional as they are, would want to stick to the idea that something is still left in the relationship. The good times you two had make you want to believe that there still exists a special bond between the two of you.

If given a chance, you will probably still want to be with him. You just want to make sure that this time it is a longer and a deeper relationship. Even though you might be ready to go to any extent to be with him, there are a few things you should never forget.

Differentiate Between Relationships Commitment and Attraction

There is a lot of difference between just being attracted to a person and wanting to commit to him. You have to ask yourself if your man is ready to be involved emotionally. Evaluate your relationship with him. Maybe you are reading too much into his actions; may be you are overestimating your own feelings.

Pay attention to his actions. Is he giving out signals of disinterest and boredom? Think about it rationally… why is he dating another woman if he is truly committed to you? Dating another woman is a crystal clear indication that, at the present moment, he is not committed to you completely. You can try giving him some time but make sure that you are not wasting your own time in the process.

There are some men in this world who run away at the first sign of the word 'commitment'. For them, their 'freedom' is the only thing they want. Trying to make such men commit to you is a foolish effort on your part. Make sure that the guy you are trying to woo doesn't belong to this category.

Men are most clearly aware that they can't keep a woman with them for long unless they commit. In spite of this, they refuse to give their word. In fact, some men will purposely give up to their woman by letting her believe that something will come of the relationship (even though they have no intentions of doing so). This should prompt any self-respecting woman to back out or to take stern measures.

Women in such a situation should never get into self-loathing and pity. Rather they should start loving themselves even more by discovering their qualities and virtues. Ask yourself who you are, what your needs are and how far you are willing to go in a relationship.

Don’t think of how to get him to commit but instead let your man be busy in his affairs. This is a golden time for you to indulge in yourself and loving yourself to the hilt.