There's rules to be follow like a game to getting your ex boyfriend back. Why? Like a game, follow some rules in order to win your boyfriend back. Communication is one key to the game and you don't cross over into too much communication. To get your ex back, you are going to need to be available. Yet, you also play the part you have moved on with your life. The trick is to play that part just right.
Try to take about a month of 'no contact rule' with your ex boyfriend. It is advisable. Keep in mind that while you’re thinking about him and wondering what he’s doing, it’s likely he’s thinking about you and wondering how you’re doing. If you’re constantly in his face, he’ll already know…or at least think he does.
This technique works because what it forces him to do is realize he has to live with the decision of cutting you out of his life. He might just come to see what a mistake that was. She’ll see what she has to deal with when it comes to not having you a part of her life anymore and he’ll realize he wants you in his life again. That means he’s likely to call you back and suggest to you about reconciliation.
No contact is ideal, but not everyone has such an opportunity during a break up. However, just because you have to be in your ex’s life, doesn’t mean you have to be a dominant part of it. You can still step aside and let him live the single life he wants for a bit.
Don’t let your boyfriend take advantage of you. He might try to convince you that you should stick around as “just friends”. That’s just going to make it harder for you to deal with the fact you’re still doing things for him and he’s not doing anything for you. You’re the only one losing in this sort of relationship.
Don't remain too much in his life, he’s not going to learn anything. He’ll think that he can take advantage of you. In fact, you’re actually giving him a reward for hurting you. If she wants things from you… let him know that commitment comes first.
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