When you're on a date, do you sometimes wish you had a checklist of the things that turn men off? Do you sometimes feel that you're playing a game and nobody told you the rules? When you're trying to ring his bell, do you just end up yanking his chain? If you've nixed more dates than you care to remember by straying into conversational no-go zones, then you need to read this article. These things are absolutely guaranteed to turn men off.
1. Marriage
It may be on your mind, and you may well be sitting across the table from your future husband, but introduce this topic of conversation too early and it won't be wedding bells you hear - it will be the sound of his footsteps, running away into the distance, forever. He's on a date. Nobody feels like deciding their entire future on a date.
2. Children
This is even worse than marriage as a topic of conversation. He wants to feel like the man of your dreams, not a convenient donor of genetic material.
3. The Perfidious Nature Of All Men
How do you think a man feels if you regale him with tales of how awful every other man in your life has been to you? Exactly how you'd feel if he told you how evil womankind is, that's how. You may well have had unhappy experiences with past boyfriends, but bringing them up is impolite at best and guaranteed to turn men off at worst. He doesn't want to feel that you view him as a heartless cad and betrayer before you've got to know him, and he certainly doesn't want to feel that you're going to bad-mouth him to your next date, either.
4. Money
It's just vulgar. Do you really want your date to feel that you see him as nothing more than a source of cash?
5. Too Much Too Soon
Honesty is important, but there is such a thing as too much information, especially in the early stages. Talking about your surgical procedures or your impending court appearance will not make him see you as fascinating and sexy, trust us!
If those are the wrong topics of conversation, what are the right topics? Anything that isn't on the above list! Your aim is to seem independent and interesting and genuinely interested in him as a person. Anything which reeks of desperation or bitterness or instability will turn men off, every time.
If you've ever had a guy pursue and chase you hard in the beginning and then suddenly seem to be "not interested" anymore, you'll want to check out this video...or go straight to http://howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com/
It may be on your mind, and you may well be sitting across the table from your future husband, but introduce this topic of conversation too early and it won't be wedding bells you hear - it will be the sound of his footsteps, running away into the distance, forever. He's on a date. Nobody feels like deciding their entire future on a date.
2. Children
This is even worse than marriage as a topic of conversation. He wants to feel like the man of your dreams, not a convenient donor of genetic material.
3. The Perfidious Nature Of All Men
How do you think a man feels if you regale him with tales of how awful every other man in your life has been to you? Exactly how you'd feel if he told you how evil womankind is, that's how. You may well have had unhappy experiences with past boyfriends, but bringing them up is impolite at best and guaranteed to turn men off at worst. He doesn't want to feel that you view him as a heartless cad and betrayer before you've got to know him, and he certainly doesn't want to feel that you're going to bad-mouth him to your next date, either.
4. Money
It's just vulgar. Do you really want your date to feel that you see him as nothing more than a source of cash?
5. Too Much Too Soon
Honesty is important, but there is such a thing as too much information, especially in the early stages. Talking about your surgical procedures or your impending court appearance will not make him see you as fascinating and sexy, trust us!
If those are the wrong topics of conversation, what are the right topics? Anything that isn't on the above list! Your aim is to seem independent and interesting and genuinely interested in him as a person. Anything which reeks of desperation or bitterness or instability will turn men off, every time.
If you've ever had a guy pursue and chase you hard in the beginning and then suddenly seem to be "not interested" anymore, you'll want to check out this video...or go straight to http://howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com/
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