If you would like to make a success of your relationship, then one of the important things is to know how and when 'should I call him'. The phone plays quite a significant role in building - or breaking - a relationship. It is not just a tool of communication.
One of the delicate things that you will need to handle in your relationship with a man is when you should be the first to pick up the phone. Calling him too often is just likely to do more harm than good. There are high chances that he will not take you seriously enough, or he may get turned off completely. On the other hand, if you do not call at all, as some people will advice you, you will appear to have been taking him for a ride, that you were not really serious.
Call only when it's necessary
Although the issue of making phone calls is something that many women struggle with, the guidelines are really quite simple. Unless it is absolutely necessary for you to call, don't do it. Although this may seem rather unreasonable, it is the method that yields positive results.
Men are hunters by nature, and when you keep calling, you will usurp his role as the chaser. Since men love chasing things, even their girls, when you keep calling, he won't have any chasing left to do and he will relax. This comfort is not exactly good for the relationship as it takes out the romance, leaving just mere formalities.
If you would like to encourage your man to call you more often, don't call him. In an effort to satisfy his curiosity, he will call you up.
This method has proven very effective over the years. When you give him room to chase you, he will call. If he doesnt call at all even after this, then he is not really interested in the relationship.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Saturday, February 20, 2010
How to Encourage Your Boyfriend to Call More Often
Building a relationship requires delicate balance in order for it to stay afloat. Interestingly enough, one of the things that create problems is getting so close that both of you become comfortable with the status quo. When you reach such a plateau, you will tend to take romance for granted, which will start to create friction. The first thing that will suffer is the communication between you and your boyfriend. Your boyfriend will particularly stop using the phone.
During the early stages of your relationship, your boyfriend will be more inclined to call you fairly often. At times he may call simply to say hi or to hear your voice. However, as the relationship becomes stronger, his phone calls may start to come gradually less often. As this shift starts, you may take it for granted and hence not give it any notice. After some time, the problem may develop into such proportions that your relationship may even end.
This is a situation that many women faced. This is something that puzzles many women turn themselves inside out in an effort to determine what the problem could be.
If you look at the matter closely, you will realize that each of you actually played some part in bringing about the situation. Given the different ways in which we communicate, there are possibilities that you may have taken some actions that led your boyfriend towards the path of silence even without taking any notice.
Change your method
Due to social nature, women enjoy spending lots of time talking to the men. Perhaps you saw nothing wrong with calling him every now and then. While there is really no crime in calling your boyfriend, the problem is that you will make him get used to waiting for your call.
If you would like to make him call more often, stop your calls. When he does not hear from you for some time, he will pick up the phone and call you. And he won't do it just once.
During the early stages of your relationship, your boyfriend will be more inclined to call you fairly often. At times he may call simply to say hi or to hear your voice. However, as the relationship becomes stronger, his phone calls may start to come gradually less often. As this shift starts, you may take it for granted and hence not give it any notice. After some time, the problem may develop into such proportions that your relationship may even end.
This is a situation that many women faced. This is something that puzzles many women turn themselves inside out in an effort to determine what the problem could be.
If you look at the matter closely, you will realize that each of you actually played some part in bringing about the situation. Given the different ways in which we communicate, there are possibilities that you may have taken some actions that led your boyfriend towards the path of silence even without taking any notice.
Change your method
Due to social nature, women enjoy spending lots of time talking to the men. Perhaps you saw nothing wrong with calling him every now and then. While there is really no crime in calling your boyfriend, the problem is that you will make him get used to waiting for your call.
If you would like to make him call more often, stop your calls. When he does not hear from you for some time, he will pick up the phone and call you. And he won't do it just once.
Monday, February 15, 2010
6 Top Reasons Why Your Boyfriend Hasnt Called
As women, we tend to worry a lot when our boyfriends do not call us. Where did I go wrong and messed things up? Has he been involved in some accident? Or has his phone been stolen? Oh, no. Perhaps he has gone off with another woman! These are just a few of the things that may race through your mind. However, these are rarely the reasons that make the men not to call. Let us take a look at some of the real common reasons.
1. He doesn't want to destroy a good relationship
It is in very rare occasions that you may go out with a man and enjoy your time while he does not feel the same way. If your date was really great, it is very likely that your boyfriend also enjoyed the date as well. However, perhaps he is already in another good relationship that he would like to preserve.
2. He isn't prepared for a strong commitment yet
There are times that you may date a man who just wanted to have a great time without getting the relationship to the romantic level. Such a man will not think of calling you, which would just help in enhancing the relationship.
3. He wanted to use you as a sexual tool
For many men, sex and love do not necessarily go together. You may go out with a man whose main interest was just to take you to bed, period. He felt nothing more than sexual attraction to you.
4. The outlook you gave
When you go out with a man, the things you do or say may speak volumes about you, which may not necessarily be true. If you appeared either desperate for affection or too impersonal, the man may be turned off.
5. Once bitten
You may go out with a man who had a great relationship with someone else earlier only to be disappointed later. Such a man would not rush into another relationship.
6. A matter of misplacement
There are times that the man may simply have misplaced the number you gave him.
Wait for a week or so, and then call him up - once. For more tips visit http://www.howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com/
1. He doesn't want to destroy a good relationship
It is in very rare occasions that you may go out with a man and enjoy your time while he does not feel the same way. If your date was really great, it is very likely that your boyfriend also enjoyed the date as well. However, perhaps he is already in another good relationship that he would like to preserve.
2. He isn't prepared for a strong commitment yet
There are times that you may date a man who just wanted to have a great time without getting the relationship to the romantic level. Such a man will not think of calling you, which would just help in enhancing the relationship.
3. He wanted to use you as a sexual tool
For many men, sex and love do not necessarily go together. You may go out with a man whose main interest was just to take you to bed, period. He felt nothing more than sexual attraction to you.
4. The outlook you gave
When you go out with a man, the things you do or say may speak volumes about you, which may not necessarily be true. If you appeared either desperate for affection or too impersonal, the man may be turned off.
5. Once bitten
You may go out with a man who had a great relationship with someone else earlier only to be disappointed later. Such a man would not rush into another relationship.
6. A matter of misplacement
There are times that the man may simply have misplaced the number you gave him.
Wait for a week or so, and then call him up - once. For more tips visit http://www.howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com/
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Your Boyfriend - How to Understand Him Better
Just by taking a casual glance, you will notice that there are notable differences between women and men. There are even more differences than meet the eye. One of the main areas that give rise to major misunderstandings is communication. This is particularly when we are building relationships with the men.
We find it very easy to air our feelings, and we would like the men to do the same. However, when you press your boyfriend to just be open and tell you that he loves you, you are taking a wrong approach. Men tend to show their love rather than say it. When you pay close attention to your boyfriend's actions, it will be fairly easy to get the message being passed across. This is a method that men sometimes use without even saying a word. You should therefore know how to get the message that he is 'telling' you through his actions.
Give me room
One of the areas creating a lot of confusion is making phone calls. If your man does not call you, he may be telling you to give him some room. When you stop your calls, he will find reason to chase after you.
I like you
During the early stages of your relationship, your boyfriend may call you fairly often, sometimes just to say hi. This is his method of letting you know that he likes your company and would like the relationship to grow.
I listen to you
Perhaps you mentioned something you like just in passing during your date. When, after some time, he surprises you with that thing, this is a clear indication that he pays close attention to you. The fact that he can recall it after a while is quite a good sign.
If he tells you things like how clumsy you are, he is really teasing you. If you were truly clumsy, he would simply ignore you. This shows that he actually likes you. If he begins to share with some of the things he did at home, such as washing, he is basically opening up to you. This is not something he is likely to tell anybody. And when he begins talking about the emptiness of the lives of his single friends, well, you should know where things are heading!
We find it very easy to air our feelings, and we would like the men to do the same. However, when you press your boyfriend to just be open and tell you that he loves you, you are taking a wrong approach. Men tend to show their love rather than say it. When you pay close attention to your boyfriend's actions, it will be fairly easy to get the message being passed across. This is a method that men sometimes use without even saying a word. You should therefore know how to get the message that he is 'telling' you through his actions.
Give me room
One of the areas creating a lot of confusion is making phone calls. If your man does not call you, he may be telling you to give him some room. When you stop your calls, he will find reason to chase after you.
I like you
During the early stages of your relationship, your boyfriend may call you fairly often, sometimes just to say hi. This is his method of letting you know that he likes your company and would like the relationship to grow.
I listen to you
Perhaps you mentioned something you like just in passing during your date. When, after some time, he surprises you with that thing, this is a clear indication that he pays close attention to you. The fact that he can recall it after a while is quite a good sign.
If he tells you things like how clumsy you are, he is really teasing you. If you were truly clumsy, he would simply ignore you. This shows that he actually likes you. If he begins to share with some of the things he did at home, such as washing, he is basically opening up to you. This is not something he is likely to tell anybody. And when he begins talking about the emptiness of the lives of his single friends, well, you should know where things are heading!
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
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Should I Call Him?
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Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Top Reasons Men Stop Calling
One of the things we enjoy as women is to keep in close touch with the men we are dating. Given that the men usually think differently, we often find ourselves in a tricky position. While we would like to talk to our dates nearly all the time, they usually take things to the opposite end.
Perhaps you have been in quite a good relationship for some time and the guy seemed very thoughtful. Then all over sudden he appears to withdraw from the relationship. What should you do when that wonderful man cuts off his phone calls?
You should first of all be aware of some of the common reasons that prompt men to cut their phone calls in the first place.
Review your relationship
You should look back and find out exactly where your relationship really stands. The fact that you have gone out on just a couple of dates and you think things are heading in the right direction does not necessarily mean that he is thinking in the same lines as well.
The best thing to do is to go on with your normal life. In case the man cares about you, he will call you to strengthen the relationship. If he does not call at all then he has no interest, and you should not sacrifice your life for him.
Avoid making the first call
Although it is largely said that men would like us to be more aggressive, the fact is that they would still like to be in control of the relationship. When you give the impression that you are pursuing him, he is not likely to respond positively.
However, the matter is quite different in case you have been dating for a while and then he cuts off his communications. You should think clearly about the type of action you intend to take in such a situation. There are many reasons why men wont call.
You are on test
One of the main things that make men stop calling is to try to gauge your reaction to such a move. This is one method that your man may use in order to determine your emotions, both in general and particularly how you view him.
Do not bother calling
Although there are high chances that you will feel like picking the phone and asking the man what he is up to, you should avoid taking the initiative. This may seem odd but it is the reasonable thing to do.
Perhaps you have been in quite a good relationship for some time and the guy seemed very thoughtful. Then all over sudden he appears to withdraw from the relationship. What should you do when that wonderful man cuts off his phone calls?
You should first of all be aware of some of the common reasons that prompt men to cut their phone calls in the first place.
Review your relationship
You should look back and find out exactly where your relationship really stands. The fact that you have gone out on just a couple of dates and you think things are heading in the right direction does not necessarily mean that he is thinking in the same lines as well.
The best thing to do is to go on with your normal life. In case the man cares about you, he will call you to strengthen the relationship. If he does not call at all then he has no interest, and you should not sacrifice your life for him.
Avoid making the first call
Although it is largely said that men would like us to be more aggressive, the fact is that they would still like to be in control of the relationship. When you give the impression that you are pursuing him, he is not likely to respond positively.
However, the matter is quite different in case you have been dating for a while and then he cuts off his communications. You should think clearly about the type of action you intend to take in such a situation. There are many reasons why men wont call.
You are on test
One of the main things that make men stop calling is to try to gauge your reaction to such a move. This is one method that your man may use in order to determine your emotions, both in general and particularly how you view him.
Do not bother calling
Although there are high chances that you will feel like picking the phone and asking the man what he is up to, you should avoid taking the initiative. This may seem odd but it is the reasonable thing to do.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Hot Tips To Make Him Explode With Desire For You - Nicole Gayle
Being an irresistible woman means being the kind of woman who responds to men in a way that tells them that you have options.
Imagine what it is like for women who get lots and lots of attention from men. These kinds of women are rated 10's by men. So when a man sees you and interacts with you, he will automatically put you in a category.
What category will you be in?
Crazies get labeled. Weirdos get labelled. Stalkers get labeled. Drama Queens get labeled. And you'd be surprised that it is actually women who consider themselves "normal" that get these negative labels from men based on how they respond.
Doing things like interrogating a man IF you didn't call you when he said he will will cause him to label you as insecure and put you in the "crazy" category.
But if a man doesn't call when he says he will then finally calls back and you act really mature about it, he'll see that as a sign that you are centered. He'll think you're reasonable because after all he has "such a busy life" and only got to the phone when he could.
Acting mature about a man's eventual phone call goes something like this - this is what a 10 will usually do:
She'll make him wait a little because she's not desperate and after all she was BUSY too with her CRAZY BUSY schedule being involved in her own life and not waiting around for a man to finally call her. Then when she returns his call, she'll act sweet and happy to hear from him. No interrogation whatsoever.
Act like a 10 and you will make him sweat!
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Imagine what it is like for women who get lots and lots of attention from men. These kinds of women are rated 10's by men. So when a man sees you and interacts with you, he will automatically put you in a category.
What category will you be in?
Crazies get labeled. Weirdos get labelled. Stalkers get labeled. Drama Queens get labeled. And you'd be surprised that it is actually women who consider themselves "normal" that get these negative labels from men based on how they respond.
Doing things like interrogating a man IF you didn't call you when he said he will will cause him to label you as insecure and put you in the "crazy" category.
But if a man doesn't call when he says he will then finally calls back and you act really mature about it, he'll see that as a sign that you are centered. He'll think you're reasonable because after all he has "such a busy life" and only got to the phone when he could.
Acting mature about a man's eventual phone call goes something like this - this is what a 10 will usually do:
She'll make him wait a little because she's not desperate and after all she was BUSY too with her CRAZY BUSY schedule being involved in her own life and not waiting around for a man to finally call her. Then when she returns his call, she'll act sweet and happy to hear from him. No interrogation whatsoever.
Act like a 10 and you will make him sweat!
To cause a raging wildfire in your man where he craves you day and night, go straight to: http://tinyurl.com/girl2wife or http://www.datingcues.com/dating-tips-for-women.html
Monday, February 1, 2010
Common Mistakes of Women - Are You The One Who Often Gets In Contact With Your Boyfriend?
In any kind of relationship, there is some tacit agreement on giving and taking. When it comes to love between men and women, the same rule applies, and there are some things that we expect the men to give in return. Given that we seem to be better at communication than our male counterparts, many of us get into the habit of calling the guys every now and then.
Are you the one who always appears to initiate communication between you and your boyfriend? If this is the case, then there are a few important things you should learn.
Create a balance
In case you have been at the forefront of starting communication and you would like things to be more even, be forthright about it. Tell your man about your heart's desire. Of course it's not just a matter of blurting it out; you must know how to present it. Let the guy know that you really love to call him up. However, you also get really thrilled when you see his name on the screen of your phone. Simply state what you would desire without pointing an accusing finger at his lack of calling.
The fact that your man has not called you does not mean that he does not really care about you. The men do not usually take the issue of phone calls as seriously as we do. It is just that making a call does not tend to be at the top of their priorities.
Take it a step further
Perhaps you have tried this approach but you appear to be just hitting a brick wall, what should you do? You don't have to raise the attention of the whole neighborhood with your accusations. The most effective way to go about it is to stop calling. Period.
It may be difficult for you to do this at first, but you should discipline yourself and cut the phone calls. When you have been used to calling your guy regularly, he won't see any reason why he should call instead.
So, do not be that predictable with your calls. When he is not sure when you will call, or whether you may even call at all, he will take the initiative and call you instead.
We usually view calls and communication in general differently from the men. Use this to your advantage.
Are you the one who always appears to initiate communication between you and your boyfriend? If this is the case, then there are a few important things you should learn.
Create a balance
In case you have been at the forefront of starting communication and you would like things to be more even, be forthright about it. Tell your man about your heart's desire. Of course it's not just a matter of blurting it out; you must know how to present it. Let the guy know that you really love to call him up. However, you also get really thrilled when you see his name on the screen of your phone. Simply state what you would desire without pointing an accusing finger at his lack of calling.
The fact that your man has not called you does not mean that he does not really care about you. The men do not usually take the issue of phone calls as seriously as we do. It is just that making a call does not tend to be at the top of their priorities.
Take it a step further
Perhaps you have tried this approach but you appear to be just hitting a brick wall, what should you do? You don't have to raise the attention of the whole neighborhood with your accusations. The most effective way to go about it is to stop calling. Period.
It may be difficult for you to do this at first, but you should discipline yourself and cut the phone calls. When you have been used to calling your guy regularly, he won't see any reason why he should call instead.
So, do not be that predictable with your calls. When he is not sure when you will call, or whether you may even call at all, he will take the initiative and call you instead.
We usually view calls and communication in general differently from the men. Use this to your advantage.
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