Dating Tips for Women - Avoid Past Relationship Mistakes

So many women have experienced so many bad men that they have shut down their minds to the possibility that there still are some good men out there. Men are like apples; you got to go through the barrel and throw out the bad ones to find the good ones. Better yet, get out of the barrel everyone has gone through and find a tree that bears fresh fruit.

When you keep getting into bad relationships that fail, ultimately you begin to blame yourself. You begin to doubt your ability to attract handsome, intelligent well-rounded men. Don’t allow your negative experiences with men to engulf your thoughts with negativity.

Have you ever known someone that was so negative that it was a chore to be around them? Negative energy is exhausting; it literally sucks the life from you.

If you’ve had more bad relationships than good ones, you may be thinking that having a relationship is not worth the effort.

These negative thoughts translate into your actions and words. It’s time to change your mindset and maybe some of your ways.

All the bad relationship experiences from your past must be released before you can start fresh. The worst thing you can do is to start a new relationship with old baggage. Every woman has had at least one bad experience in her past. Smart women learn lessons from their failed relationships and avoid making the same mistakes twice. Women who judge new men on the merits of previous men haven’t learned anything from their past and will almost certainly make the same mistakes over and over again.

Stop punishing yourself for failed relationships. Everyone experiences them. How else would you recognize a good relationship, if you’ve never experienced a bad one? Stay positive with your thoughts, actions and words. Your positive attitude will be reflected and admired by those around you.

Bitter fruit bears bitter juice. Let the bitter thoughts go and embrace the positive sides of your experiences. Instead of focusing on what went wrong in your past relationships, remember what was right and be grateful for the experience.

Dating tips for women

Your positive attitude and actions are a natural attraction to the right types of men. Positive energy tends to attract positive energy. If you keep meeting the same types of men, consider changing your dating venue. It may be time to seek out new places in your life that will bring new men to your life. Remember if you don’t change anything in your life, your life will always be the same.