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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Why Men Stop Calling?

Your initial meeting with a man may be quite electrifying. Do you remember how your heart raced when you looked into his handsome face? And your parting after the date may have been equally great. He seemed to enjoy everything that you shared together. You have no doubt that there is something very strong tying you to each other, and you begin to have big dreams as to where the relationship is heading. Then he vanishes into thin air and he hasn’t called back since.

Before you parted, he took your phone number and promised to call. You didnt expect this..he doesn't call. Day passes, you reason that he simply does not want to appear to be too hasty. As the days crawl by with still no call, you begin to worry about what could have happened. By the time the days add up to one week, then another, you will have pulled yourself apart as you try to find out what went wrong. Where did you mess things up? Or was he merely taking you for a ride? If so, why didn't you notice it?

There are numerous reasons why men don’t call back. Here are some of the common things why men stop calling and don't keep their promises of getting in touch.

1. He wasn't serious
Of course this will hurt you, but perhaps he was not as interested as he made it appear. For some men, women are simply sexual objects without any interest in developing anything out of the relationship. Such a man most likely has other women and you were just a means of fulfilling his desire.

2. He is not prepared for commitment
The man may be interested in you but does not want to make any commitment as yet. As a result, he will try to keep his distance. One main reason why men don’t call.

3. Your craving for affection
Men are put off by women who seem desperate. If you seemed to agree with any trivial thing he said, and burst out in laughter at the slightest hint of a joke, he will take note - and bolt.

4. Being impersonal

On the other hand, you may have gone to the extreme opposite, acting too hard to catch. You need to strike a good balance to arouse his interest enough to chase after you.

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