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Tuesday, June 9, 2009

6 Common Reasons Your Boyfriend Not Calling

As women, we tend to worry a lot when our boyfriend do not call us. Where did I go wrong and messed things up? Has he been involved in some accident? Or has his phone been stolen? Oh, no. Perhaps he has gone off with another woman! These are just a few of the things that may race through your mind. However, these are rarely the reasons that make the men not to call. Let us take a look at some of the real common reasons.

1. He doesn't want to destroy a good relationship

It is in very rare occasions that you may go out with a man and enjoy your time while he does not feel the same way. If your date was really great, it is very likely that your boyfriend also enjoyed the date as well. However, perhaps he is already in another good relationship that he would like to preserve.

2. He isn't prepared for a strong commitment yet

There are times that you may date a man who just wanted to have a great time without getting the relationship to the romantic level. Such a man will not think of calling you, which would just help in enhancing the relationship.

3. He wanted to use you as a sexual tool

For many men, sex and love do not necessarily go together. You may go out with a man whose main interest was just to take you to bed, period. He felt nothing more than sexual attraction to you.

4. The outlook you gave

When you go out with a man, the things you do or say may speak volumes about you, which may not necessarily be true. If you appeared either desperate for affection or too impersonal, the man may be turned off.

5. Once bitten

You may go out with a man who had a great relationship with someone else earlier only to be disappointed later. Such a man would not rush into another relationship.

6. A matter of misplacement
There are times that the man may simply have misplaced the number you gave him. Wait for a week or so, and then call him - once.

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