He Doesn't Call - Should You Call Him Instead?

Many women are clueless as to why their dates do not call them even though he promised to do so. The first instinct that women tend to think of - is to pick up the phone and call them instead. Things worsen when they do not answer the call. Any calls will make them jump up, thinking he finally called back. Days gradually turn to weeks without receiving any call from him.

So the question is - should you call him? No! When you call him repeatedly, you are likely to do more harm than good. Repeated calls will not encourage him to chase after you.


Don't chase him around


First of all, men love pursuing but are scared of being pursued. You will simply look desperate and needy which will turn him off.

The most you should do is to call him or send him a text message - just once. Then wait for him to respond.

So what should you do if you still don't hear from him? You will certainly have a strong urge to pick up the phone and call him, but try to refrain yourself from doing so.


Step back


Firstly, you should take a step back. Think of the possible reasons why he doesn't call. Could he have lost your number? Or maybe he might have sent his phone for servicing?

Ask yourself whether it is really worth pursuing him? Is him really interested in you in the first place? If he is truly interested in you, he won't risk letting you be won by another man, and he will call you - rest assured.