Common Mistakes of Women - Are You The One Who Often Gets In Contact With Your Boyfriend?

In any kind of relationship, there is some tacit agreement on giving and taking. When it comes to love between men and women, the same rule applies, and there are some things that we expect the men to give in return. Given that we seem to be better at communication than our male counterparts, many of us get into the habit of calling the guys every now and then.

Are you the one who always appears to initiate communication between you and your boyfriend? If this is the case, then there are a few important things you should learn.

Create a balance

In case you have been at the forefront of starting communication and you would like things to be more even, be forthright about it. Tell your man about your heart's desire. Of course it's not just a matter of blurting it out; you must know how to present it. Let the guy know that you really love to call him up. However, you also get really thrilled when you see his name on the screen of your phone. Simply state what you would desire without pointing an accusing finger at his lack of calling.

The fact that your man has not called you does not mean that he does not really care about you. The men do not usually take the issue of phone calls as seriously as we do. It is just that making a call does not tend to be at the top of their priorities.

Take it a step further

Perhaps you have tried this approach but you appear to be just hitting a brick wall, what should you do? You don't have to raise the attention of the whole neighborhood with your accusations. The most effective way to go about it is to stop calling. Period.

It may be difficult for you to do this at first, but you should discipline yourself and cut the phone calls. When you have been used to calling your guy regularly, he won't see any reason why he should call instead.

So, do not be that predictable with your calls. When he is not sure when you will call, or whether you may even call at all, he will take the initiative and call you instead.

We usually view calls and communication in general differently from the men. Use this to your advantage.