8 Secret on to Get His Attention Fast

Whether he is your boyfriend or husband, there may be times when the man does not seem to notice you as you would like. Instead of enjoying your company, he may appear more interested in other things - whether his work or hobby. Although such an attitude may get you really worried, it does not necessarily mean that your man does not love you any more. It is really more likely the opposite.


When a man is assured of the love of his woman, he gets a sense of security that tends to make him more relaxed. As a result he will hardly see any need in making much effort in getting your attention. He sees that there is no problem that requires his attention in the relationship, and hence he will make very little effort in enhancing the relationship. Unfortunately, this tends to kill the romance in a relationship.

The best way to solve this problem is to show him your need through your actions. Being blunt about it and confronting him with the issue will hardly yield the desired results. You should not give the impression that you are demanding. Remember that in his view there is nothing wrong with the relationship, and you will just take him by surprise. He may just see as if you do not appreciate or trust him, and he is more likely to defend himself.

This is even more so if what has been occupying him is his job, since he may interpret your actions to mean that you do not appreciate his great efforts. A man's work is very important to him, and he may be working that hard especially for you. This may be his way of trying to create more input in the relationship.

There are a number of salient methods that you can use to make your man notice you once more fairly quickly. Here are some of the things you may take into consideration.

1. Review the mood in your bedroom

In case either of you appear to get bored in the bedroom; you need to find ways of making it livelier. For example, take more initiative in sparking the romance and you will get him more interested in you.

2. Briefly visit him at his place of work, and may be ask him out for lunch. This will silently tell him that you are thinking of him.

3. Take note of how you dress. Get his attention by putting on in a sexier manner. This usually works pretty fast.

4. Let him miss you. When there are times when you are not available while he needs your company, he will think of and miss you. Just do not take it to the extreme that may make him focus even more on his work.

5. Tease him at times. Flirt with him a little more and make him notice you.

6. Carry yourself with confidence. Check how you walk and talk. When you carry yourself with confidence, you will be able to make him notice you.

7. Prepare some things especially for him. Think of the type of meal he likes, and prepare it as best as you can.

8. Talk to him directly about your need. You should sweetly and seriously tell him about your need without sounding as if you accuse him in any way. Use the 'I' method to express your own need.