One of the things that may greatly bother you in your dating relationship is why he doesn't call. If you have ever been with a man who seems not to know how to use the phone, then you understand how frustrating the situation can be. How do you extricate yourself out of such a predicament? Shouldn't you just call him up and tell him a piece of your mind? You can do this, but you should not. Things will simply get out of hand. There are better methods that you should use.
Many counselors will tell you that in any healthy relationship, there should be open communication between both parties. You may therefore decide to be forthright with your boyfriend about his lack of calling. In many cases, doing this does not yield any positive results, at least not as you would expect. Given that men usually communicate differently, your boyfriend may just be surprised that you are so worked up about such a 'little issue'. Of course, this will infuriate you even more.
You are the reason
This is something that may take you by surprise but it is true. There are high chances that you are the reason why your boyfriend didn't call. This may be due to a number of factors.
In case you have been used to calling your boyfriend, then that's exactly why he is not calling. Why should he call yet you will call anyway? I know that this may not seem very reasonable to you, but that is how men tend to look at the issue.
If this has been the case, then you will need to take the initiative and break the chain. Stop calling him. This may appear to be harsh but it is what will get you out of the situation. Be determined not to call no matter how great an urge you will feel to do it.
When he does not hear from you for some time, he will be concerned as to what may be taking place. Unless he does not mind losing you to another man, he will call you, and keep it up.
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