There are a number of possible complications that you may face when you are dating a man you are interested in. The dating process requires a delicate balance, where you will appear neither too eager nor too withdrawn. This is particularly when it comes to phone calls between you.
Some of the issues you will need to handle well so as to spice up your relationship is, should you wait for him to call? Is it all right for you to call? and how you should make your call when it is appropriate. There are some unspoken rules that will help you to have a more fulfilling relationship with the man you love.
When should you do the calling?
One of the main causes of confusion is when it is appropriate for you to call the man. As many of us will agree, the men do not seem to like making calls as frequently as we would like. In order to cover the gap, many of us resort to calling the men instead as the waiting may be quite frustrating. If you do not take the initiative and he does not call, how will you ever communicate? Actually, that is not the best way to solve the problem.
Take action - do nothing!
Picking up the phone to call your man is more likely to just get you deeper into the quicksand you have gotten into. The action that you need to take is to do nothing. Do not call him. When you keep on calling him, he will in turn keep on waiting for you to call. You therefore need to break this cycle by not calling.
If the man knows that you will call when he doesn't, he will simply wait for you to call. After some time passes without hearing from you as he expects, he will get curious and will call. This is really the best method of encouraging your guy to call.
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