It seems that as time goes by, the practice of dating is getting more and more tricky. While we live in a world of advanced Information Technology, there are numerous tacit rules that you have to abide by in order to be on the right side. There are currently plenty of rules regarding when you may call your man, and even how to go about it.
The phone is nowadays much more than just a mode of communication, entrenching itself as a very crucial component of the dating system.
Demonstrate independence
As a general rule, you are not the one who should take the initiative to call your man. While you may have gone out on a memorable date with a man, it is advisable that you should not pick up the phone to call him. This in itself is a great way of communicating. This will help you to demonstrate your independence, showing that you are not craving for attention. This in turn shows that you are worthy of pursuit. And that is what men enjoy doing.
As we have seen, the phone does more than just passing the message across. The men at times use the phone as a tool of manipulation. It also acts as some kind of a testing gauge. Your man may not call you in order to gauge how you react to his apparent lack of attention.
When you rush into finding out why he is lost, he will become even more assured that you are deeply involved in the relationship, which will just make him relax even more.
This means that when you would like to call your man, stop. Don't do it. Wait for him to find something of value to pursue in you instead. This requires a great deal of patience, but then as the saying goes - patience pays.
Although there are special cases when you may call a man, be cautious. You may end up driving him away.
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